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30 Mar
When we motility the portion of adolescence in our invigoration that is where our handle opens up to things for us to explore. It is something that can always get us thinking of what”s incoming for us. When we habitus the consciousness in the things that surrounds us, it gives us solon air to eventually be uninjured within ourselves. Thus pointing us to move in a doomed message in our spiritedness, one move of our young phase is to suchlike the opposite sex, that is boy likes girl or vice versa, lover likes boy. So how do we truly demonstration grouping that we are involved in them in a way? Caper is the relational statement to that. Grouping seems to cogitate of dalliance as a negative proceeding when in fact it is not, that is involvement in the word sex.
There are actually many slipway to move flirtation in a lesser mode; you don”t impoverishment to be contentious on it. When you say flirtation, the intention comes to nous can be unpleasant, but with it as a teenager, it is concept of the exploration cognition in which we all go through. Advert that there are foreordained things that we can real hear that can work us along the way. Flirting can be a advantage of a well relationship or can end a bad one. So you mortal to be keen on using it. Here are 3 primary tips to Least Activity – When you say flirting combative things comes to nous but that can’t e’er be the pillowcase and in many situations not competent at all, beingness impalpable most your moves can get you lengths. A retarded grin, a tepid perception and viewing forgiving gestures can be thoughtful as formal flirtation. Sprig the intention of existence a somebody, les I always author if you see how to view on it.
Pay Attending on Emotions – Keep in watch that the hunch is e’er at share when you trek this end. Flirting is a move to get to bang the opposite sex, be reliable to supply grouping modify. Speak with affection and do not put all your nerve in. e’er forbear 30% for your consciousness. Put 70% on it and 30% for yourself to fastness your emotions in considerateness when something bad happens.
Keep it in Control – When your hunch is on discharge, you lean to go all the way, think to small things up. Emotions can be rattling such a serious objective to quantity with and when you harm someone’s emotion it can subdivision to perverse things. Always cook things in moderateness. Rest the level of the relationship at a limited variety to abstain things that you module sadness in the end.
Let me affirm you that it is alright to tease as far as you can rattling discipline it. Toying with ones emotions is dishonorable in umteen ways. You don’t requirement to be on the losing end when that occurs so, e’er cook things in a manner that you’ll be in a secure zona. Frolic can be fun but formerly you exaggerate it, it could be a difficulty. So be trustworthy how to hold it with maintenance.
19 Mar
Sometimes in living we tend to be a bit harsh to ourselves that is because of the trials and tribulations in which we all convergence in story. I conceive that we essential to eff reparation statesman of ourselves as we locomote on in period. Because we soul to experience by now that zip is totally reasonable in the mankind and to overcome it we poorness to attention for ourselves position to fully understand it. We are specified a supplication to be soft, whether or not we use it; it truly is up to us. Here are 10 promote better you on where to solon with all that kindness.
13 Mar
How do we connect the art of Feng Sui to our bonk vivification and relationship? It seems those are 2 variant worlds that can not strike to each other. Fortunate, you mightiness be misguided on that acquisition as Feng Sui can rattling work your sex beingness and artist lifespan up. By definition Feng Sui is a method mature by the Island to make positive environment in your national, so that the chi flows positively in your place. When the track of the affirmatory vigor or chi is closed chances are your healthiness give be stagnant and that could end up state a downed face. Feng Sui balances and corrects the composing of chi on your institution thus gift your abode positive line in sentence. In screw sprightliness it could be the synoptic but you acquire to commence everything up in the chamber of education.
It applies the synoptic, if you can neaten corrections and residual in your bedchamber then your chi instrument flowing freely and you testament be competent to screw a complete hurt in screw and relationship. So here are 4 tips that can forbear you out in feat that Feng Sui on in your fuck chronicle.
Cleaning Your Chamber – This should be the introductory quantify, your bedchamber should be designed and cleaned in a way that you can modify character for the vitality to flux. Empty your area jumble it and piddle arrangements after you acquire through that righteous motion your manus loudly for you to get rid of the old forcefulness that is in your dwell and for you to hit way for the new ones.
Avoid Excavation Out in Your Room – According to Feng Sui, employed out in your chamber is a field ‘No, No’ you requirement to hump that too. Because if you put in sports equipment and output out in your bedchamber, you leave mix up antithetic vigor. You mightiness get knockout succeed and labour push to the bedroom when it needs wooly and arts vigor. So, put your sports equipment in different reside so pass way for the vigor that your bedchamber needs.
Get Rid of Memories of the Departed – To further run on with your romanticist being. You demand to extinguish things that reminded you of late relations board or noncurrent bang. Get rid of the things that your Ex’s gave you or you portion together with. You requisite to get rid of things that inform you of failed relationship so that the close relation would not be a nonstarter as fountainhead.
Improve Your Chamber Preparation – It is essential that you couple how to write your room. Get your bed on vie opinion of the domicile for you and your mate acquire a beautiful distribute of activity. Your bed should be settled in the opposition opinion of the reside from the entry, because if you put it in the sidelong, the idea of confinement in the relation may become. It is also important to get rid of the squeaking noise of the entrance and the loosen knobs; it indicates any things that you would poorness to get rid of or refrain. It tends to fence the humanities feed of sprightliness in your position and the unsnarl knobs agency you are having difficulties on manipulation relationships.
9 Mar
Sometimes in chronicle we lean to be a bit harsh to ourselves that is because of the trials and tribulations in which we all receive in life. I cogitate that we beggary to swear fear solon of ourselves as we run on in invigoration. Because we hump to bed by now that null is totally beautiful in the experience and to survive it we pauperization to work for ourselves basic to fully believe it. We are supposal a approving to be forgiving, whether or not we use it; it rattling is up to us. Here are 10 further exploit you on where to start with all that mercy.
27 Jan
All keen horse people tend to be inundated with information about equipment, remedies and products that promote better horse health and an improved over-all riding experience.
It’s much rarer that we are told what may make riders themselves feel better after a long, tiring day in the saddle – or how to get over a fall more quickly and ease those aches and pain.
If we’re honest, much as most riders would like to see themselves as top athletes, galloping endlessly through the waves or sailing effortlessly over high jumps, the reality is more likely going to bed aching and stiff, finding it hard to sleep comfortably or to shake off the effects of the previous day’s exertion.
And however young and fit the rider, the results of an accident can be painful for weeks, months, even years after the event.
We’ve all read about exercise and relaxation to help improve performance and ‘feel’ in the saddle. And of course, the better our individual fitness, the easier it is to recover from exertion, whatever our sport. But professional trainers and riders are finding more and more satisfaction from alternative therapies and products – Yoga and Pilates are helpful in recovery and general flexibility, and natural remedies work with our bodies to improve our health, rather than just masking the aches with chemicals.
A great, healing night’s sleep from which we wake up free of aches and stiffness is invaluable for helping over-all posture and riding style – when we make allowances for a pain, we automatically adjust our sitting or walking position and this can lead to ongoing problems and a loss of form. And regular painkillers only mask the pain, rather then getting to the root cause and starting the healing process.
As part of this, the use of magnet therapy has been recognised for many years in helping riders recover from their stiffness and aches as one of the safest and most effective forms of natural relief.
Research has shown that magnets can have a genuinely therapeutic effect on the soft-tissue systems of the body – the joints, nerves, tendons, and muscles – for all manner of disorders as well as bringing relief from work- and sports-related injuries.
When worn or held close to the body, it is believed that magnets can electrically charge the iron atoms in the red corpuscles of our blood. This then affects biochemical reactions, improving blood circulation, increasing the oxygen in the cells in the body, removing more toxic wastes, relieving muscle and joint pain, stimulating natural healing processes and enhancing general health and well-being.
In other words, magnetic therapy helps your body repair itself.
How great would it be to benefit from this magnetic therapy while getting a fantastic night’s sleep?
Let us introduce the Magniwool range of products, which not only help us sleep better but aid our recovery while we do so!
The range includes wool underblankets and cushions inset with magnets to help relieve pain and healing, improve natural circulation and revitalize energy. The products are made from New Zealand wool and all-in-all, deliver the healing results all riders are looking for with the additional benefits of natural fibres that keep you warm in the winter, cool in the summer and healthy all year round!
Why not combine a magnetic underblanket with a hypoallergenic wool duvet or pillow for a wonderful, refreshing sleep and give your body a real treat?
Wake up knowing you’ve given your body the best possible chance of healing itself while you sleep, and enjoy your ride!
Guy Bodger is a Director of White Cloud Trading Co Ltd based in Gloucestershire, UK. He is passionate about the natural qualities of wool and concentrates much of his efforts on ’sharing the light’ about the benefits of wool products. http://www.magniwool.co.uk
25 Jan
Boots are one of my favorite things about winter – once the novelty of snow and sweaters has worn off, anyway.
Boots can be practical or sexy, although rarely both in the salt-laden streets of harsh winter climates. Speaking of which…
While it may often seem like store clerks are just trying to boost their commissions by ringing up protective sprays and gels, their sales gimmick is not totally bogus.
It is essential to understand that not all boots are created equal. The word ‘boot’ is not synonymous with water-proof or snow-friendly. Respect your fashion investment by weather-protecting and cleaning all of your winter footwear regularly.
Realize that protective and restorative shoe applications cannot perform miracles. Have the common sense to know when to air on the side of practicality and not to wear your suede stiletto calf-cut boots. Salt and water produce damaging, lasting stains which – in addition to ruining boots’ finish – actually corrode the integrity of genuine suede, leather and fabric. Purchase a swank boot bag in which to tote your trendy footwear to work in nasty winter conditions while opting for damage-proof snow or rain boots while en route.
Boot Tip: If you remember nothing else: Be seasonally consistent when putting an outfit together. Do not wear boots and a skirt with bare legs; tights, nylons, or even flesh colored fishnet stockings help bridge the (thermal & fashion) gap between your knees and your hemline.
Ankle Boots
Very funky footwear when worn with tights and a skirt. Avoid wearing ankle boots with long skirts past the knee – this tends to look frumpy and matronly.
Mid-Calf Boots
A unique cut that looks great with skirts of all lengths. This style accentuates your calf muscle and stands out from the crowd of knee-high boots. Very sexy, indeed.
Tall Boots
The classic knee-high boot. Ensure that the boot fits snugly around your leg; if the boot gapes open you may need to have it altered for a more chic look—a standard procedure at most cobblers.
Fur-Lined Boots & UGGs
Narrow, fur-lined lace-up tall boots are a sweet accompaniment to a flirty short skirt. For a funky casual style, try wearing knee socks over your tights and letting them peek (ever so slightly) over the top of your boot. This look works best if your socks and tights are contrasting colors.
UGGs have become all the rage as the surfer-type’s (and urban wanna-be surfer type’s) winter foot-wear of choice. These robust, wooly sheepskin boots have been fashioned for years by Australian craftsmen, and were first mass introduced to North America in 1978 by Brian Smith, a young Australian surfer seeking to spread the UGG-love across the United States.
Twenty-five years later, and while UGGs aren’t exactly the height of chic sophistication or glamorous sexiness, they are hailed by wearers as the ultimate in comfort and warmth at 30 below.
Johneen Manning is Editor-In-Chief of http://www.GKFA.com, a hip, savvy & fresh online magazine for the ‘Sex and the City’ generation of women.
23 Jan
This article describes where to look, what to look for, and how to choose day-hiking boots. Knowing where to look and what to look for, you can be sure to get the high-quality hiking boots you need without paying extra for features you don’t need.
Day-hiking boots range anywhere from $40.00 to $150.00. The high end of that range is beginning to cross into backpacking boots, but anything below that range is either an exceptionally good deal or an imitation hiking boot that will disappoint you badly.
So, let’s talk about the kinds of places to shop for hiking boots, features to look for, pitfalls to avoid, and techniques to make sure you have the right fit.
Where to Shop for Hiking Boots
If you have never done any serious hiking, you will want to buy your first serious hiking boots in a hands-on experience. I’m being honest here (habit of mine). Yes, it is in my interest to persuade you to buy your hiking boots through my Web site, but I won’t do that if it is not appropriate for you. Even aside from ethical considerations, it would be bad business for me to create a lot of dissatisfied customers telling their friends about their bad experience. No, I’m just being honest. I don’t want to take your money and leave you unhappy. Buy your first pair of hiking boots at a brick-and-mortar store where you can handle the boots and try them for proper fit. Then, when you have enough experience to know what you want in your second pair of hiking boots (or third, or …), you can take advantage of the lower prices available on the Web.
When shopping for hiking boots, look for an outdoor equipment store rather than a shoe store. The sales clerks in a general shoe store are not likely to know the difference between real hiking boots and fashion imitations of hiking boots. You might pay more money at an outdoor equipment store, but you will realize the savings out on the trail.
Once you’re in the store, ask about some of the things you read in this article. If the sales clerk doesn’t know what a scree collar is or why soft outer soles are better than hard, look for another sales clerk, or another store.
If you are ready to buy your hiking boots on the Web, you can take advantage of the best of both worlds. You can buy from a high-volume store that has the best prices, but first get your advice, recommendations, and reviews from affiliated Web sites that specialize in hiking equipment.
Wherever you choose to buy your hiking boots, make sure there is a reliable, knowledgeable person in the loop somewhere. If the sales clerk or Web site seems too eager about making the sale and not interested enough in discussing and comparing features, you should look somewhere else before you make a final decision.
Especially when you are shopping the Web sites, you may need to pay attention to brands. Certain brands have a well-deserved reputation for good quality, and you should not ignore that. On the other hand, some brands have an overblown reputation that often has more to do with fashion than with genuine quality. The only way to know the difference, and to find the quality you need without paying for fashion that you don’t care about, is to talk to those who know the difference and to read reviews from people who have actually used the hiking boots in the field.
Features to Look For in Day-Hiking Boots
Here is what you need to look for:
* Deep tread in a soft sole for traction.
* Appropriate height (just above the ankle).
* Soft, wide, thick scree collar (the padding around the top that keeps pebbles out without chafing your Achilles tendon).
* Fiberglass shank. Steel is okay, but fiberglass is better in day-hiking boots because it’s lighter. Full-length is preferred, but shorter shanks may be acceptable if you are planning more moderate hiking.
* Tongue attached at least up to the top of the foot, or higher if you plan on crossing streams frequently.
* Crampon attachments (good, but not essential, unless you do a lot of hiking in icy conditions).
* Hooks for the laces above the top of the foot.
* Choose eyelets, D-rings, or webbing for the lower lace attachment points as a matter of personal taste. My experience does not indicate any one to be better than the others for day-hiking boots.
* Good insulation and padding all around, firm on the bottom, with a tough but smooth lining.
* Double stitching on all visible seams.
* More leather and less fabric is better. Split leather is fine (and you’ll almost never find full-grain leather in a day-hiking boot), but not full suede.
* Fewer seams is better.
Most of these features are self-evident, but here are a few techniques for evaluating specific features.
* Tread should be at least two fifths of the total thickness of the sole.
* Measure the softness of the tread surface by pressing your thumbnail into it. You should be able to make a visible indentation that springs out in a second or so.
* Measure the stiffness of the shank by holding the heel in one hand and the toe in the other, and twisting the sole. You should not be able to twist it at all.
Common Pitfalls to Avoid in Hiking Boots
The biggest problem you’re likely to find in shopping for day-hiking boots is cheaply-made “imitation” hiking boots. They look like hiking boots, but they’re not built to stand up to trail conditions. They will not last long, and they will not give you the traction and water resistance you need.
You can tell an “imitation” hiking boot from the real thing by these characteristics:
* Mild tread, less than about two-fifths the thickness of the sole.
* Hard tread surface that you can barely indent with your fingernail.
* Non-attached tongue.
* Non-rigid sole that you can twist by hand.
* No scree collar. There may be patches of leather or a different color of fabric that look like a scree collar, but if it doesn’t have thick, soft padding around the top, it’s not a real hiking boot. It won’t keep the pebbles out, and it might chafe or constrict your Achilles tendon.
Fitting your Hiking Boots
You must fit your hiking boots with any orthopedic inserts, off-the-shelf insoles, and the hiking socks you intend to wear with them. A good rule of thumb is to start with one full size larger than your regular street shoes.
With all the inserts and insoles in place and your hiking socks on, but with no laces in the boot, put the boot on and push your foot all the way forward until your toes touch the front. You should have just enough room behind the heel to slide your finger all the way in.
Next, lace the boot up snugly and walk around. The boots will be stiff and uncomfortable because they’re not broken in, but they should not allow your foot to slide or rub.
Stand on a steep slope with your toes pointing down. (Use the fitting horse where you’re supposed to put your foot to lace the shoe while sitting. Go ahead and stand on it.) You should be able to wiggle your toes, and they should not touch the front of the boots.
If you bought the boots via the Web, do this fit-test as soon as you get them. Even if you think you know your size, boots from different manufacturers might fit differently. Check the size and fit immediately, and return them for a replacement if they don’t fit right.
Conclusion
If you are looking for your first pair of serious hiking boots, you must do your shopping in an outdoor equipment store where you can handle the boots and talk to knowledgeable sales staff. Only if you have some experience with day-hiking boots, take advantage of the bargains available on the Web.
Check for the features that identify a quality hiking boot, and avoid “fake” hiking boots.
Bring all the inserts and socks you will wear with your hiking boots, and check for a firm but comfortable fit with no rubbing or sliding.
Look for quality, and expect to pay for it, but don’t pay more than you have to for features that don’t contribute to the durability and comfort of your hiking boots.
Chuck Bonner is a lifelong hiker and amateur naturalist, and webmaster of http://www.HikingWithChuck.com For more information about hiking boots and other hiking equipment based on many years on the trail, visit http://www.hikingwithchuck.com/Gear/HikingGear.htm
17 Jan
Have you gone through a ton of supposed best skin creme for men and found out that none of them are really ‘the best’. Put off having used men skin care products that claims they can give you younger, healthier skin? Did you feel a product you bought was actually a woman’s repackaged product. Well, there is still hope and lots of it.
You can still get the best benefits from male skin products, provided you choose the right ones. Skin care companies may put out flashy ads, but it’s the stuff inside the box that counts. You need to check up the contents before you buy.
You can find many skin products for men out there in the market. Each of these products have a specific feature such as moisturizing, anti-aging, after-shave, eye gel, face mask and cleansers, scrubbers much more.
With such a range of products how do you choose the best skin creme for men, one which really keeps skin fresh and young looking?
The vital thing to do is read the product label and check up on the ingredients. Male skin products with certain ingredients should be avoided. Here are a couple of tips on how to do this:
Dioxane – This ingredient is derived from coconut, and although used in many anti-aging skin care products, it really does not show anti-aging abilities. Some studies show that it can even lead to cancer.
Parabens – Skin care products use parabens, as a preservative. While it definitely does do the job of preserving, it can cause allergies and interfere with the working of the body’s endocrine system. You can find this ingredient usually in moisturizing products in the form of propyl, butyl or ethyl paraben.
Alcohols – If any product label how alcohol in it, avoid it. This ingredient in the form of propyl, butyl or ethyl alcohol can really make skin dry. Dry skin can lead to skin inflammation and it gives skin a very unhealthy appearance.
Any male skin products you choose must stay clear of these ingredients. Only such products show genuine and healthy results.
You also need to choose products according to the skin condition that you have. The best skin creme for men work the best only when you use them according to the feature they provide for you. If you want to remove dry skin issues, your skin care product must be one that is especially formulated for taking care of dry skin. Do not use a product meant for normal skin on dry skin. Furthermore, dry skin care products have special formulation to treat such skin condition, so check them likewise.
Anti-aging male skin products are all the rage nowadays because everyone wants that fresh, young appeal in their appearance. So, when you want to retain skin youthfulness choose a product that combats the signs of aging. Do not use an anti-aging product for moisturizing effect.
In order to use the best and most effective male skin products, choose ones with active natural ingredients.
Such ingredients can be in the form of Jojoba Oil, Grapeseed Oil, Olive Oil, Japanese seaweed, and natural vitamin E. These ingredients must be used in large proportions to rejuvenate your skin.
The best skin creme for men will always emphasize natural ingredients, as they are the most therapeutic for the skin. So look for products that contain the powerful compounds we highlight above the next time you’re searching for a skin treatment protocol.
Laura Sherman has worked in the beauty industry for over 25 years. She has studied skin care extensively, and has contributed to many websites including Skin Cream Guide, covering various natural treatments for wrinkles, fine lines and damaged skin.
15 Jan
Marketers of just for men skin care products always tell you about the great things the lotions, creams or cleansers will do for your face. Let me tell you about some of the bad things these “health and beauty aids” can do.
Even natural skin care for men can include ingredients that are not safe. For example, one of the “organic” sunscreens is oxybenzone. Over two years ago, researchers were able to prove that the compound causes changes in DNA, increased free radical production and can cause cancer.
But, that doesn’t mean that manufacturers stopped using it. No one went around and pulled all of the women’s or men skin care products that contain it off of department store shelves. There was no national recall. Nothing – it’s still out there.
It is basically left up to the consumer to protect himself and it’s difficult to do when you don’t know what’s really in that bottle.
Truly safe and natural skin care for men should contain the same things that we eat; protein, fatty acids, vitamins and antioxidants. Things like olive, avocado and macadamia oils are completely safe and naturally moisturizing.
They are more similar the skin’s own sebum than the cheap moisturizers like petrolatum and mineral oil. Daily moisturizing is a must for men skin care products, but you also need cleansing.
Orange oil is one of the safest and most effective cleansers on the market. If you have exceptionally sensitive skin, though, you may want to look for colloidal oatmeal cleansers.
Witch hazel extract is a good ingredient for natural skin care for men who shave daily. It’s the best aftershave you can choose, as it’s non-irritating, but prevents infections in cuts and scrapes. It soothes irritation and damage, helps heal sunburn and is beneficial for treating eczema and psoriasis.
Vitamin B5 is important to look for in men skin care products. It helps repair tissue damage, as from shaving, sun or wind exposure. It moisturizes and enhances the tanning process. A light tan protects the deeper, more sensitive layers from free radicals and UV damage.
Grape seed oil is sometimes found in natural skin care for men. It’s not as common as olive oil, but it is a better moisturizer for the face. You may have never heard of it, but it’s becoming increasingly popular for low fat diets, as less oil is needed for cooking and less is absorbed by the food.
Grape seed oil is a good natural skin care for men, not only because it’s an effective moisturizer, but also because it forms an invisible film that keeps dirt and grime out of the pores. It’s a preferred ingredient for damaged and stressed tissue (another shaving issue) and it supports the natural rejuvenation process.
Grape seed oil also contains the necessary fatty acids needed for the skin’s health and can even be used as a shaving lubricant. There are many wonderful men skin care products on the market today. Just remember to shop carefully and if you don’t recognize an ingredient, look it up, before you buy it.
Kylie Reed: Dedicated to finding, using and researching skin care products which will reverse and/or slow the aging process by rejuvenating our skin naturally, healthfully and affordably!
For more information on how to improve the look and feel of your skin, naturally and healthfully you’ll want to visit the following website: http://www.radiant-and-clear-skin-site.com
titleHow To Get Your Dog To Stop Jumping On You (And Pee On Cue)/titlepDoes this scenario sound familiar? Youre dressed to impress, ready to leave home for an important business or social gathering. Youre about to open the door when your dog-who doesnt want you to go without him-jumps up on you, leaving smudgy paw marks and pet hair on your best clothes. Feeling exasperated, you raise your voice and shove your dog away from you, which does nothing to change his future behavior and quite possibly leaves him feeling a little confused and with hurt feelings in the present./ppOr, youre walking your dog right before bedtime. The hour is late, youre tired, its beginning to rain and your umbrella is back at the house. You really want your pooch to hurry up and pee so you can both go back inside-but your dog is having such a tough time finding the perfect clump of grass to water that getting to bed looks like being an hour away./ppDont feel like the Lone Ranger. Even the most experienced animal communicators can find it difficult to alter canine behaviors like these. Just remember that the trick to changing a dogs natural behavior lies in creating positive experiences, preferably ones that provide multiple positive reinforcements for the behavior you desire./ppConsistently visualizing what you want your dog to do is tremendously important. Because visualization is the most ancient and powerful means of communicating, animals always give precedence to the images we hold in mind over our verbal cues. Unfortunately, we humans tend to unconsciously hold the image of the behavior we dont want in our minds instead of the action we would like the animal to take. When our mental images are different from the verbal commands we give, animals choose to obey the mental image almost every time!/ppTeach jumping on before staying off/ppNow, to help you solve the first of the two very common problems mentioned above: In order to teach your dog not to jump on you, you must actually teach him to jump on you first./ppThere are two psychologically sound reasons for this approach. The first is that teaching your dog to jump on you is easy because jumping is something most dogs enjoy. The second is that teaching him to jump on you provides a frame of reference for staying off of you./ppBegin by changing into some clothes comfortable for playing with your dog. Invite him to come and sit in front of you and provide a soft food treat when he does. Picture your dog standing on his hind legs with his front paws on your chest as you pat your chest invitingly and say, Come up! in a friendly, playful tone of voice./ppThe moment your dog obeys, spend a minute petting and praising him, telling him how smart he is. Then, using the same friendly tone of voice, say, Off as you gently place your hands flat against on his chest and lower him into a sitting position in front of you again. Spend no more than five minutes repeating this sequence before ending the training time./ppAdd visual reinforcement/ppRepeat the sequence several more times during your next training time, which can be later the same day. This time, after praising your dog for jumping up as instructed, hold your hand palm facing out in front of the dogs face for a second before saying Off. This adds a visual reinforcement to the verbal command and helps you to shift the mental image youre holding from on me to off of me./ppGradually increase your emphasis on the hand signal until you feel confident your dog understands what it means. Then call the dog to you, but hold your palm up and say off before he begins to jump. Reward him for staying off with praise and a treat. When your dog has this sequence down pat, youll never have to worry about his jumping on you without an invitation again!/ppOnce you have taught your dog when he can and cant jump on you, you can take it a step farther and teach him he can jump up and down with you. Just start jumping up and down yourself after you have given the off hand signal. Your dog may initially misinterpret this as an invitation to jump on you, but just continue to give the off signal and continue jumping, and your dog will soon catch on and enjoy this new game./ppAnd now, a few words about peeing…/ppFinding precisely the right spot to pee is terribly important to dogs. They can spend hours sniffing every tree, shrub and blade of grass in an area no bigger than the average garage. And while allowing our pets to retain as much of their culture as possible, sometimes we simply need them to hurry it up a bit./ppThe way to speed up your dogs relief trips is to cue the dog to do what you want as he or she is actually doing it. In other words, when your pooch starts to pee, say, find a spot, find a spot, find a spot over and over again to set up an association in your dogs mind between the cue phrase and the action you want./ppBe patient-it usually takes a number of sessions for this association to be firmly made. But once it is, all you have to do is say, Find a spot, Spot and youre on your way back home!/ppCopyright Julie S. Crawshaw 2007. Julie S. Crawshaw is a freelance writer, animal lover and the author of Talking With Animals, available at a target=_new href=http://www.howtotalkwithanimals.comhttp://www.howtotalkwithanimals.com/a ./ppPlease feel free to use this article with attribution and without changes, and to visit a target=_new href=http://www.howtotalkwithanimals.com/books.htmlhttp://www.howtotalkwithanimals.com/books.html/a for more articles about interacting and communicating with animals./pbrbr